T is not a fan of unexpected singing AT ALL. And sometimes, even expected singing is completely not cool with him. But we walk into the sanctuary on Sunday mornings, and he looks at us and says "Sing". He enjoys it. He is happy during the services. It's just more fuel to fire my belief that this child is connected to God.
Sometimes he's quite vocal about how happy he is, and God bless the people who sit near us every week, we've never gotten even a sideways glance.
Thanks be to God for churches that welcome ALL - and I mean ALL God's children.